25 Random Things About Me

1. I tend to be a serious procrastinator. Case in point--Hilltop News. 'Nuff said.

2. I really hated high school. I was not popular and very awkward (read: ugly). College was where I came out of my shell, I suppose, and was truly the best time of my life. Most people who have met me since college do not believe I was quite shy and retiring in high school.

3. Sometimes I still think I am too self-centered to be a mother. While I love being a mom, there is a part of me that would love to chuck it all and run away to live in London in a little flat.

4. On the same note, I try to be the best mom I can. I know sometimes that leaves a lot to be desired. I'm still waiting to get the instruction book in the mail. Damn that US Postal Service!

5. If something happened between Bob and I, I am fairly certain I would not get remarried. While I do love being married, all the "baggage" that tends to come along with it is not worth another go-around.

6. If I had to do it all over again, I would have majored in English in college. I secretly think that I could write one hell of a book someday, but don't know where to start.

7. I really miss having a pet, especially a cat. We always had cats growing up--Socks, Chester, Hattie, Simba. Since Barley died in April, this is the first time I've ever not had a pet.

8. My best friends now are the ones I've met since college, whether it be through work, school/daycare or neighbors. They are an amazing group of women and I love them all dearly.

9. I am a Central PA Lifer, meaning I was born in Harrisburg Hospital, grew up on the West Shore, graduated from Cedar Cliff HS and am now living in Mechanicsburg. I tried and tried to get away after college, but it just didn't work out. I never pictured myself in a million years coming back here to marry and raise a family.

10. I recently described the events of my childhood to some people who weren't privvy to all the sordid details. Their reaction was, "Wow!". While I know I didn't have a typical childhood--especially for the '70s--I'm sure there are people that had it far worse than me. Besides, I think--for the most part--I turned out OK. Except for #11 below.

11. I really like to swear. It's a good release.

12. I really love to read. It's a great escape.

13. I really love to write. When I get on a roll, sometimes I'll look back at what I've written and am amazed at what is on the "page"--that's it's so witty and well-written.

14. Many times I really wish my dad was still alive--even though he's been dead going on 32 years. I hear so many of my friends talk about their dads now, and I wish I was able to have a relationship with my "Daddy" still at the age of 40. I hope my girls are still able to be "Daddy's Little Girls" when they are 40.

15. I love the way my mind works.

16. I attended a taping of "The Price is Right" on Spring Break 1990. It was awesome. I still have the name tag shaped like a price tag that says "RHONDA".

17. I have owned two cars in my life--my beloved "R"-Honda Accord, and my Civic.

18. In college my nickname was "HONDOO". That was on my license plate while I had the "R"-Honda Accord for many years.

19. While I am quite spiritual and believe that God "speaks" to us in many ways--most of which we're not aware of (see Psalm 46:10)--I am not a big fan of organized religion. My feeling is that organized religion has caused many of the problems facing the world today. There. I said it.

20. My favorite time of day is after the girls (and Bob!) have gone to bed and I can curl up with a book on the couch with a glass of wine while listening to the "Big Band & Swing" station on XM.

21. I can eat an entire bag of cheese curls at one sitting.

22. I'd love to get a Masters degree in either Humanities or English.

23. I have never gotten a speeding ticket. (Knock wood!) That is not to say I obey the speed limit when driving...!

24. I love to read to the girls before bedtime. I read like I'm in a play. The girls get a kick out of it and so do I. I then daydream about accepting my Oscar award for Best Actress...

25. Overall, at this point in my life, I like who I am and what I'm doing. I don't give a shit what other people think of me, and try to be accepting of said other people. I donate to charities, care about the downtrodden and worry about global warming, trying to do my best to be "green". I finally understand what people mean when they told me, at 20, "Boy, I wish I knew then what I know now." Yep, I sure do.

The Hilltop News

It's funny...I have been told repeatedly that my Ireland blog was quite witty and well-written. One friend even went so far as to suggest I try to get it published. As I am my own worst critic (who isn't?) I find that hard to believe. But maybe I'll give the blogging thing another go.

I miss writing. It's hard to fit any type of writing in between work, kids, housework, reading, Facebook (a new favorite time-waster). The only time I'm forced to write is for that illustrious bi-montly publication known as the Silver Spring Elementary Hilltop News (circulation 500). The Hilltop News is the eyes, ears, nose and throat of my daughters' elementary school. I'm the editor/head writer, which isn't nearly as glamorous as it sounds. Every two months or so I find myself chained to my computer, hammering out some article on the various goings-on at Silver Spring. Or designing the newsletter on Microsoft Publisher. I find myself bitching about it each and every time to anyone that will listen.

Yet when it's complete, I am immensely proud of what I've done. The articles that I pounded out late at night somehow sound pretty good. The layout of the newsletter itself somehow comes together and seems to mesh. Most amazingly, Silver Spring parents will come up to me and say, "You know, I enjoyed this edition of the Hilltop News. You always do such a nice job with it." And they mean it.

So maybe I shouldn't be so hard on myself. Maybe I really have missed my calling as a writer or journalist. That's OK. I can get my writing fix every two months at the helm of the Hilltop News.

Tuesday, April 22--Return to Dublin

Yes, I did have another “full Irish” this morning. I did ask our host to hold the sausages, though, But I’ve grown an affinity towards “beans on toast”, believe it or not! It is seriously good, if you haven’t tried it. You can find Heinz Baked Beans in the International aisle in Wegmans. Buy a can, heat ‘em up, and spread ‘em on toast. Good eating!

We packed up our stuff and headed back to Dublin. The trip back was relatively uneventful. After awhile (and this sounds just awful), everything starts to look the same. Cows and stone fences dotting the green landscape like a patchwork quilt. Picturesque little towns full of colorful homes with pubs on the main thoroughfare. Sheep (natch). And castles! I thought I would never tire of seeing castles (or ruins of castles), but seriously, they are everywhere over there. You can swing a cat without hitting a castle. I initially started to take pictures of every one I could, but then realized if I continued in this manner, it would be like Bob and his “sunset” pictures. One hundred pictures of the same thing.

Outside of Limerick, Bob and I both noted that the landscape seriously reminded us of Central PA—gentle rolling hills with budding trees. And an Interstate highway, of course. We also saw tons of farm equipment on these major highways. Tractors, you name it! Can you imagine a tractor barreling down I-81?

The exit signs on the interstates were interesting. Instead of seeing, “N84, 2 km”, you’d see this:

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then about 1/8 mile later:
//
then about 1/8 mile later:
/
And after you saw “/”, you’d better be ready to get the hell off the highway, ‘cause it was your exit!

And speaking of signs, I've never seen more comical signs than what we saw in Ireland. Here's just an example...

Seen driving through a small town:

Seen at the Cliffs of Moher:

Seen at Black Head in Doolin:

And possibly the best sign I've EVER seen in my entire life, outside of Carran:

Back to our drive to Dublin...we did NOT have a B&B reservation in Dublin. We found two B&B in this B&B Guide that Bob had that seemed to fit the bill of our needs for our last night in Ireland--near the DART ("light rail" line) into Dublin, plus close to the airport. So did we CALL these B&Bs for reservations, or even, directions? NOOOO! Someone decided to "wing it". Which would've been OK if we would've had something (anything!) that passed as a map of the Greater Dublin Area--which is where our B&B was located.

It will surprise you to know that we actually FOUND one of the B&Bs in the book, and called them (from in front of the house) to see if they had any vacancies. I wish I was making this up. *sigh* Thankfully, they had a room for us, so we unloaded our stuff once again, and headed off to the DART station.

Arriving in Dublin a short time later, we found Trinity College and wandered around, taking in the sights. We took the requisite picture of Pinky on the college grounds, and then checked out a game of cricket on the green. It was like something out of an English postcard--guys running around in cream-colored slacks, white dress shirts with cream-colored knit vests. Unreal. Cricket, by the way, is possibly a slower game than baseball, and I didn't think that was humanly possible.

Monday, April 21—The Barren Burren

After yet another artery-clogging “full Irish” (when am I just going to say “no” to one of these??), Bob and I set out to see the Burren, which is hard to describe unless you’ve seen it. I’m going to completely lift a particularly adept description of the Burren and how it was formed from the latest edition of Lonely Planet’s book on Ireland (8th edition, January 2008, page 389):

“[The Burren] stretches across northern [County] Clare, from the Atlantic coast to Kinvara in County Galway, a unique limestone landscape that was shaped beneath ancient seas, and then forced high and dry during some great geological cataclysm. Boireann is the Irish term for ‘rocky country’, a plain but geographic description of the Burren’s aces of silvery limestone karst pavements. The pavements, known as ‘clints’, lie like huge, scattered bones across the swooping hills. Between the seams of rock lie narrow fissures, known as ‘grykes’. Their humid, sheltered conditions support exquisite wild flowers in spring, lending the Burren its other great charm: brilliant…color amid so much arid beauty.”

My take on the Burren? I would describe it as “beautifully desolate”, and would liken it to walking on the moon (although clearly I’ve never done that.) Walking on the limestone formations is a bit bizarre—they look like solid rock, but you’ll often step on one and hear a hollow sound.

We drove down the R480 from Ballyvaughn, near the Aillwee Caves (“See it by boat!”…oops! wrong cave), to the N481 in Kilfenora, near the Gleninsheen Castle. This route took us through the “heart” of the Burren, plus also past some amazing prehistoric sites, like the Poulnabrone Dolmen, aka “the Portal Tomb”.

The Portal Tomb was built more than 5,000 years ago. When it was excavated in 1986, the remains of 16 people were found. We read at the site they estimate 33 people were buried there, the most recent being a newborn child from the 1700’s. Look at the picture below, and tell me how those prehistoric peoples erected that bad boy, ‘cause I have no clue.

On the way back to Lahinch, I made Bob take a detour to find a place called the Burren Perfumery & Floral Centre, outside this little town called Carran. The shop itself was not hard to find, as it was well marked, however every time we made a turn the road just seemed to get smaller and smaller. Bob clearly thought that I had no freaking idea where I was going, but finally I was vindicated when made yet another turn—onto the smallest road yet—and there was the perfumery. The cool thing with this place is that is uses the wildflowers of the Burren to make its scents. It’s the only place of its kind in Ireland. The best part? The signs that say “No Coaches” (tour buses). Got to love a place like that!

We found our way home, which wasn’t hard. In Ireland, the best way to figure out how to get some where is to look for signs directing you to towns, rather than the routes that would get you there. For instance, at various points during our jaunt in the Burren, the road signs would just indicate towns, and not route markers. We knew we were OK as long as we saw we were heading towards “Kilfenora”, rather than being on the R480.

Their “roundabouts”—what we call “traffic circles—are another story altogether.We grew to like them during our jaunt through the countryside, but initially they were a little daunting. As soon as you realize that traffic coming from the right, has the right-of-way, you’re OK. And it’s imperative you know which “exit” off the roundabout you’re going to take before you get into it, ‘cause sometimes that’s not well-marked. But they do keep traffic moving without the use of stop signs or stoplights, and we were all for that!

Back in Lahinch, Bob set out for his last round of golf at Lahinch Golf Club for his last round of golf. The Lahinch Golf Club was established in 1893. It’s basically in the town of Lahinch. Bob could have walked there if had wanted to.

While he golfed, I relaxed with a book for awhile, then set out to explore the town. Lahinch, incidentally, is a HUGE surfing outpost, quite well-known for its righteous waves. There are three surf shops in the town, and even while we were there, we saw a few hardy souls in the water trying to catch the perfect wave. I can only imagine what the town is like during the summer. Must be insane.

Needing a nice pint of Guinness after my walk, I headed towards the golf club and had myself a pint while I watched the foursomes come in on the 18th green. Finally I spotted the man himself (he’d been paired with 3 other Americans, believe it or not!) and quick ran out to the terrace to snap some pictures of his triumphant finish.

We grabbed some dinner downtown at the Atlantic Hotel. I had had enough “pubbing”, but Bob was still raring to go, so he walked back downtown and went to some pub called the Nineteenth Hole. Apparently, there were NO women in there, and the only inhabitants were a bunch of regulars that were speaking with such thick Irish accents that Bob had no idea what they were talking about. After downing 2 beers, he called it quits as well and stumbled home.

Sunday, April 20, 2008--Ouch

I will start out by saying I had every intention of going to the local Roman Catholic church in Dingle on Sunday morning--the 9:00 am Mass--just for the experience. That was before Cora and Billy and our evening with them, which turned out to be Drink Fest 2008. When the alarm that Bob had set at 7:00 am went off (his cell phone blaring the theme from "Rocky"), I realized that there was no way in hell I'd be going anywhere, any time soon. Bob got up, showered and went down to breakfast at 9:00 am. He ended up not having to "kiss the porcelain God" the night before, but I was pretty close to myself at that moment. Ugh. Around 10, I felt a little more human and was able to stand erect and shower, so we said good-bye to the Bay Watch (tee, hee) and left town around 11:30 am.

We decided to take the Connor Pass on the way to Lehinch, our next golfing destination. The Connor Pass is kind of a shortcut from Dingle to Limerick. A shortcut that takes you over the top of a mountain on a narrow (single-lane narrow at some points), winding, twisting road where there is just a tiny hedgerow between your vehicle and the abyss. Fun. The top of Connor Pass was shrouded in fog, so I'll assume there were magnificent views to be had. 1/2 down the mountain there was a pull-off with a little waterfall. There was no fog here so we were afforded a beautiful vista of the valley, and Bob was able to accumulate several dozen or so more pictures (!).

The rest of the trip to Lehinch was uneventful. At the little town of Tarbert, we boarded a ferry to take us across the River Shannon, which was something I'd never done before. It was definitely advantageous to take the ferry versus driving around--saved us about an hour of drive time.

We entered County Clare and drove through various picturesque towns and passed many old castles in ruins. The one thing curiously absent? Sheep! After we crossed into County Clare the sheep had been replaced by cattle grazing here and there in the fields.

After arriving in Lehinch and checking into our B&B (the Auburn House--highly recommend!), we got back in the car and continued north to the Cliffs of Moher. The Cliffs of Moher are the craggy cliffs you think of when you think of Ireland. They are magnificent in person, I can tell you. They're made of limestone and are entirely vertical to the sea.

After see the breathtaking views of the Cliffs of Moher, we drove a little further north to the town of Doolin. Doolin is supposed to be a Mecca for Irish musicians. I figured we’d see a lovely little main drag with plenty of pubs on it. Huh-uh. The town of Doolin is apparently spread out in 3 sections. We were unable to find the “main” pub section, but did find the part that ended up at the Atlantic, called “Black Head”—so named for the black rocks that lead out to the water. Atlantic storms have stripped the land from this area, so all that’s left are the black rocks. This area is actually part of The Burren (more on that tomorrow), so that explains the strange rock formations. Very pretty wildflowers were springing up in between the crack of the rocks. Bob took his requisite 100 pictures of the ocean spray against the various rock formations, and we headed back to Lahinch.

Our evening in Lahinch was uneventful—compared to the night before. We took a stroll around the town, and decided on a restaurant called The Shamrock Inn for dinner. I had chicken curry, which was very good. Just about every restaurant over there has some type of curry dish!

Following dinner, we meandered around poking our heads into the various pubs to see what type of live music they had. We finally decided on Flanagan’s Pub, which was one of my favorites of all the pubs we’d been in. The music of the evening was jazz, so we settled in at some barstools to hear the musicians for a bit. Finally, my tent was definitely folding, so Bob and I walked back to the B&B and hit the hay.

Saturday, April 19, 2008--The Wheels Come Off the Wagon

Saturday started off in a fairly benign way. Bob went golfing, somewhere near Dingle, but again I couldn't tell you precisely where. I joined him for breakfast at 8:00 am in the dining room, and our fellow breakfast companion was a fellow who really didn't seem to be firing on all cylinders. I think he was some type of Dingle local who actually lived at the Bay Watch (tee, hee). His conversation started off innocently enough, but things took a strange twist when "Chuck" (his real name is still a mystery) asked us if we knew of anyone that worked at the CIA. I thought at first he was kidding, but Bob and I both realized after a moment that he was indeed serious. We both of course said no, we don't know anyone. And "Chuck" says, "Oh. Well, I have some information about the 9/11 attacks that I've been trying to relay to a CIA man. I knew about the attacks 9 months before they happened." Our response? "Oh." I mean, what can you say to that? He then went on, "A few months ago a person here knew of a CIA man in Palm Beach and I told him to have the man contact me. I never heard from him, though." No SHIT, Sherlock.

Anyway, "Chuck" finished his breakfast and went on his merry-CIA-man-hunting way. Bob and I finished yet another calorie-busting "full Irish" and he left for golf, while I, I'm ashamed to say, crawled back into bed and slept until 11:40 am. I'm on VACATION, dammit!

After I woke up (the second time), I quickly showered and set about exploring Dingle. I walked up and down all the streets and poked my head into a few shops. You all will be proud of me--I didn't buy ONE thing.

It started to drizzle a little, so I ducked into John Benny's again, found a cozy seat near a window, ordered a Guinness and hunkered down for nice read (Kitchen Confidential by Anthony Bourdain, if you're wondering). Bob eventually showed up around 4:00 pm, then left again to do some wandering of his own. After he returned, we wandered around town for a bit and then finally decided on The Dingle Pub for dinner. I had shepherd's pie, and Bob had Irish Stew. I had a glass of wine, figuring that would be my drink of choice for the evening. I was all Guinness'ed out.

After dinner, we roamed the town again, checking out the bars. We finally decided on The Small Bridge Pub as the bar of choice. The bar is huge and has a great atmosphere. Dark, with lots of stone and four bars serving alcohol in it. It was my favorite one in Dingle.

Towards the back of the bar, they had a huge flat-screen showing some type of athletic contest. We starting watching it, along with a few locals who were gazing at it intently. As we watched, we were actually unable to figure out what the hell kind of sport they were playing. It wasn't rugby, not soccer, not field hockey, not lacrosse, and not cricket--although it appeared to have elements of each in it. It was brutal, I can tell you that. Each player wore only a "rubgy" shirt and very short shorts, and cleats. Some men wore helmets (smartly), but most didn't. Each man had a stick that resembled a hockey stick, but was much shorter. And they would lob this small rubber ball up and down the field--either with the stick or their hands--and try to beat the piss out of one another in the process. At either end of the field, there were goalposts that had a soccer neat beneath it that they would try to lob the ball through to score. After the game was over, we were still completely confused as to what we had witnessed, but we meandered back to the front bar where there would be music playing later.

This is where the wheels started to fall off the wagon. We continued drinking--me, wine; Bob, Guinness--and the bartender asked us where we were from. We of course answered, "Pennsylvania". A few minutes later this very tall guy turned around to us and said, "Did I hear you mention you're from Pennsylvania? You have a big election coming up there, don't you?" Again--we can't escape the hype. Turns our the tall guy (Billy) and his wife (Cora), were in Dingle for the night for a much-needed "Parents Night Out". There were about our age, and great fun! We ended up hanging out with them for the rest of the evening, swapping parenting stories, talking US Politics, and general life stuff. Billy also revealed to us what the "mystery sport" was--hurling! It's apparently an Irish thing and is huge over here. Oh, and I should add we drank. And drank. And drank. Billy would buy us a round. We'd then have to reciprocate and buy them a round. And so on.

It all went downhill from there. All I know is that we eventually left The Small Bridge Pub, and went back the The Dingle Pub, where we ended up closing the bar at 1:00 pm. The only reason Bob was able to drag me away from chatting with Cora was that he insisted he was about to puke. OK--time to leave! We said our good-bye's, exchanged e-mail information, and went back to the Bay Watch (tee, hee). Somehow we managed to get back into our room, even though there were NO lights on. And then we passed out.

Friday, April 18--Driving to Dingle

Friday morning, Bob was up bright and early to go golfing somewhere. I really don't know much about it, except that it took him 45 minutes to get there, he battled 40-50 mph winds while playing, and took several hundred pictures while there. I am not making this up. Those of you that are familiar with Bob's picture-taking tendencies will know this is the truth!

I got up, showered, and meandered down to breakfast in the hotel, which is included in your night's stay. A proper Irish breakfast is called "the full Irish", and it is an artery-clogging fest. Eggs, bacon (but nothing like our American bacon, and they call them "rashers"), sausages (or "bangers"), toast, grilled tomatoes, and black and white pudding. For those not familiar with black pudding, don't be fooled by the name. It is definitely not pudding! It has something to do with pig's blood, and I think that says it all. In the manner of "Extreme Foods", I did try it. And that was enough. Blecch!

An aside to my friend Jack--they also had baked beans! The British kind--just tomato sauce and beans. I thought of you right away. I did try some (not the best, IMHO), but forgot the key of putting them on toast. Next time...

After breakfast, I caught a bus downtown and went to Grafton Street, which is like the 5th Avenue of Dublin. All kinds of high-end shops, including Marks & Spencer. I very excited to finally see a Marks & Spencer...it's the little things, you know.

Grafton Street also houses my own personal mecca--The Body Shop! I enjoyed talking shop with the shopgirls and seeing the stuff that they had that we don't have in the states. Erin, do I have stuff to tell you!

I took the bus back to the hotel and waited for Bob to return from his golfing adventure. I should mention that buses in Dublin are of the double-decker variety, and they are everywhere! The bus system is quite easy to navigate.

Bob and I set out to Dingle around 12:30 pm. Getting out of Dublin was much easier than trying to get in the day before. In case you're wondering, we took the M50, the N7, the N20, and finally the N86 to get to Dingle. Surprisingly, most of these roads were four lane highways. A few, however, were two-lane, narrow, hair-raising affairs where folks sped along at 100 km+. We heard a stat on the radio around Limerick that 75 people were killed on Limerick roads in the past year. After driving the roads, I can see why.

A few words on the drive itself. It was gorgeous, of course. Lots of open land divided by hedgerows, so that it looks much like a patchwork quilt. In the "patchworks" are various types of animals--cows, goats and sheep. There are TONS of sheep. Sheep, sheep, and more sheep. Did I mention there were sheep??

Also, there are no billboards to be seen anywhere. Really! And there are no signs at exits to towns pointing out possible amenities like food or gas. If you get off an exit looking for food, it's a crapshoot. There was also this strange species of yellow shrub everywhere. It kind of looked like a holly bush, but had yellow at the end. Any plant lovers out there that might know?

Over 5 hours later, we arrived in Dingle. Patti, you're right. What an adorable town! It's situated next to Dingle Bay with lots of brightly colored fishing boats in the harbour. There are tons of little shops here and there, and the best part--over 50 bars! Some of the bars are located in stores, like Foxy John's Hardware. This is every man's wet dream--a bar in a hardware store? But I digress...

Bob and I got situated in our B&B, The Bay Watch B&B (I am not making this up), and set out to get ourselves a pint. About 30 steps away is Murphy's Pub, so we had a few pints there and made a new Irish friend in the process! He was quizzing us about the upcoming Pennsylvania primary on Tuesday, and US politics in general. Bob and I are just amazed that we are what? 4,000 miles from home and the PA primaries are ALL OVER the news here. And when people here find out we're from PA they always have to comment on it. We can't get away from all the hype, even an ocean away. *sigh*

Both of us having nice Guinness-induced buzzes, we meandered around the town looking for a cool pub that served food and had Irish music. We settled on a place called John Benny's, which must have been the happening place, 'cause it was packed. We each had fish & chips, and settled back to hear the music.

I should point out that Dingle is crawling with American tourists. I mean, you can't swing a cat without hitting an American tourist. Initially at John Benny's, an American couple sat down next to us, and the guy asked the waitress if they had any American beers on tap. I was ready to just crawl under the table. Are you kidding me? You're in Ireland, for crying out loud! Drink Guinness, or at least Harp, and LIKE it! The annoying American couple left, and were replaced with four girls from Florida, probably in their 20's, here in Ireland for vacation. They were a lot of fun, so we chatted with them for awhile.

Again, after a long day of driving and one too many pints, we were both ready to call it a day. We left John Benny's and headed for the Bay Watch (tee, hee).